Ross and I are no longer dating. Which is the reason for my title. We had a talk and he has said that he is never going to adjust to having a girlfriend he has been single for too long. Is it just me or aren't relationships about adjustments not necessarily changing but adjustments. He says he is too opinionated and set in his ways to have a serious relationship. I just said that well maybe one day he will meet someone and he will WANT for all of this to happen that that person would be worth the adjusting for. He said he didn't think he ever would that he would just be a "bachelor" for the rest of his life. Ouch. I know he didn't mean it the way it sounded but it still doesn't make it not sting a little. I told him that I was looking for this to head down a serious path he said that he was just looking for fun right now. Which brings me to the title shouldn't we have discussed this in the beginning? I mean after being together for pretty much 2 months how could you not expect for it to eventually turn into something to serious. I mean when you are trying to talk about the future with me and saying certain things how could it not take a serious turn? Okay enough of that.
I had teacher inservices Monday-Wednesday which were horrible it was nothing but watching videos and observing what you saw...all in all I was not impressed and I could have done all of that sitting in the comfort of my own home :)
I have a feeling once I move back to small town america I am going to be single for a long time...either that or all of my former students will be wanting to fix me up with people that they know. Like the single man that works at the store with the 4 kids...No thank you. I know that there is a perfect time and place for this so called perfect man to walk into my life, but I just don't think its going to happen this year when I am teaching at small town america.
Enough of this depressing post.... I should have more happier things to post about soon.
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